The fights we Lead !

Nine of Ten fights we lead, are not ours!

Quite astonishing is the smell of victory and shame of defeat, that people who know how to, will always go for it. And how many of us would go for  such a nerve tendering, soul craving and time wasting journey?

Almost all. Almost means 99.99% or more. Shocked, right?

Well,  just take a sneak in to retrospect window for the last five days of  your life. Is it not that you bought something? Let it be the bus  ticket, grocery, a diet coke or a toffee. How did you come to know about  the usage/existence/need or utility of it? 

Huh?

You  learned it, right. 

From culture, society or teacher or movie or ad or  TV or may be in dream you saw that toffee, whatever, but now you have  just paid a dime to a dollar for it.

“So what? It doesn’t mean that I am in a war !!”

No, it doesn’t mean. And neither the title I put mean any damn thing about war.

Let me take you to one rare attention cave…

What if you wouldn’t have bought that toffee?

“Answer is simple, someone else would have”

What if there was only one piece?

“So what, it is just a toffee not a nuclear fusion fission technology!!”

Technically  it is not. But if I prefix this toffee with, one and only makers’  choice, gold dusted, silver wrapped, world’s single piece costing 10^5  USD; then ?

“Ohh ! This can’t be. It is just a toffee”

Seriously you be logical or I am gonna put someone else in this story !! :P

“Oky Oky ! I would have thought to buy it or may be just google it or gossip about”

Great. Thanks ! So now you are speaking something meaningful. But why would you do it?

“Now  the belonging adjectives are new, rare, price is exaggerated, customs  of making is something I haven’t heard and might be it will give me some  amazing and awesomest feeling to buy it, have it and put a update about  it on FB ??”

Gosh ! You are terrible, but right.

SO THE POINTS ARE,

A) Exaggeration is what almost all the times attract

B) We are wired to get attraction

C) We are formed in the way to learn, teach, speak and spread consumption

“Yeah ! Now tell me the damn point about fight !”That’s it. This is the point.

What all the things you do what you do for anything or anyone haven’t been started as inspiration? Almost all? Be it your job, dream of doing something, being something, accepting or  rejecting something… anything that you have thought or will, is going  to have some backtrack of influence, inspiration or inclination?

It  will. Not for we are doomed, but we are made in that way. We are  brought up, grown and taught in a society where the foundation is  interdependence and coinciding goals. So there is nothing wrong with it.

But …

a big But !!

And  that is, if nine of ten dreams we have, work and activities we do, things we own, paths we follow, tricks we learn, thoughts we speak and  emotions
(perhaps)  we emit, are inspiration based, then what is the meaning to fight so  hard in gaining, loosing, compromising, letting, throwing, crying or umping for them.

The only base line if you understand this then is, “You are still free to joy, and joy never had any entry gates”

 Ciao !